You might be wondering what the difference is between the basic and the total connect plans. Well, apart from a few pounds — not a great deal. The total connect plan just adds a more in-depth personality evaluation by no means essential , and Private Call. Private Call lets you call members on the site without revealing your number, but since you can also achieve this with Skype or Google Talk, you are probably better off saving your money and just opting for the basic plan, unless there is a special promotion on. Here is what you are able to do with an eHarmony free account: Register and complete the personality questionnaire Complete your profile and upload your photos View your matches matches are members on the site that eHarmony thinks you are compatible with View profile descriptions of your matches but not their photos Send ice breakers smiles Current Deals and Promotional Codes From time to time eHarmony has promotional offers on. And usually once a month they have a free communication weekend. During this time all free site members can communicate with other members on the site for free. View our eHarmony Promo code page for the latest offers. So 3 months later I washed my hands of both of them and joined up to eHarmony.